What is my work?

 

 It’s our work to reveal the true freedom and ability that you carry within you. To help you use it to create the life you want to live.  And, all this starts with a problem-  your problem.  You may be having trouble at work.  Or at home.   Or you may have no apparent trouble in either place-  and still you feel unfulfilled in some way- you want more from your life and you can’t really spot the trouble.  The ‘problem’  is not something to solve- it’s something to dissolve and we do that by looking inside you for the change required.

 

I have many high achievers who want to stretch in to more adventure in life- more fulfilling vocations..or who want a teacher to help stabilize their understanding of life and consciousness and apply it.

 

We explore the gaps in your knowledge and your understanding of yourself.  It’s a work of deep intimacy.

It ALWAYS  starts by getting to know the you that you are not aware of. Some call it ‘subconscious’  but I think the term latent consciousness fits it best-  it is the part of you that you are not fully aware of.  Not separate. 

 

Your destination is governed by the work you need to do: to know and feel and understand yourself and to apply this in your daily affairs.

 

And most of us are inclined  to think that if we want to HAVE different

We need to DO different. And that is the case to a degree-  but change at that level that almost never holds.

 

Here is the thing-  we act in the world from a highly specific set of beliefs about self and life.

An identity. 

 

This identity is unique to you. It is shaped by all of the experiences, learnings, fears, impressions, preferences, desires, beliefs, certainties, traumas, misunderstandings, emotions you have about life. Most of it you are not yet conscious of, and is at work within you.

 

It is here we must begin, no matter what you come to me for.

 

If you come for instance because you want more business-  we have to look  at what informs your current way of doing business. The same works for your relationships or whatever else you want to change. I may ask you a seemingly unrelated question to learn about you.  

 

The method you use in the world- is wholly informed by YOU.  Your unique constitution, your sense of limitation and possibility-  your past, your present, and your sense of the future, self and others, possibility and impossibility.

 

To create your business in a new way- more fully, easier, more efficient, more lucrative, we 

Must look at the you that does the business.

 

This won’t be found in your methodology for doing business, principally, it will be found in your sense of self and life.  This includes how you think and feel and act. 

 

It is there I will engage you.  And we may talk very little about business.  I will in fact engage you

More deeply and ask you to bring WHATEVER is arising for you in these moments in your life.

 

What are you present to? Bring that to me.  It’s here where we can get at your core beliefs and find the limits that are inevitable there, no matter who you are.  We all have an edge.

 

However you live within yourself- is where we will find the impetus towards better business. 

This is in fact the answer to everything.

 

This methodology is not unknown in good coaching.  They will ask you to look at your’ identity.’

Change your identity, change your life. And that is in fact true to a degree.  

 

BUT your identity is always affected by conditions and experiences- either within you, or externally, and therefore they are subject to change.  THIS Is why we fall back or need an upgrade. Identity is conditional.  YOU are not a condition.

 

I want to take you deeper.  Down to the fundamental components of you.

Your ‘SENSE’ of yourself.  Way down deep penetrating your thoughts and feelings.

You need to be allowed to think and feel and sense yourself fully.  You will  find hidden motives and beliefs that need attention that give rise to seemingly unrelated conditions in your life.  THIS is why we look everywhere. (e-motion)

 

I will help you replace/refine/dissolve the motives and beliefs that no longer serve you through inquiry into what you actually ARE.  Bedrock truth. And you will see this for yourself.  And if in looking- you have not yet found solid ground to stand on and instead you keep shifting into what you should believe differently…

You have not gone deep enough. We need to find this elemental foundation in you which is at the heart of you and of all of life.

 

It is real.  Touch this- and you will absolutely know it.  Feel it. Sense it.

 

THAT’S how you change your life, a much fuller embrace of you.  A more intimate embrace.

Down to the very fact of your being.   Embracing everything,  denying nothing.  And we watch what holds, and we watch what doesn’t. And the power and certainty and strength that arises will be undeniable.  It’s more like a revelation than a creation. An allowing of your infinite nature.

Identities are CREATED.  You are the origin of such things.  I want to take you there.

 

You have the script to where you want to go.  I don’t.  It’s my job to give you access. I can hear your desires  as we talk and we go deeper and I really get intimate with you- and  I will begin to speak on these as I get familiar with them.

 

There is a difference between true and false desires.  You may come to me thinking you want a particular thing or condition in your life-  and as we investigate you may find that you having whatever it is will save you from something. No condition in your life can save you from anything. We will need to address your fears directly and this will empower you to create whatever you want.  A real desire  works differently-  these come from a sense of purpose and direction and flow out of love  and interest and curiosity and real enjoyment.  These feel different even.  And you will find that these desires SERVE you and your growth as you express and create  them. A life full of ‘hearts desires’  is a very very good life.  More of that, Please.

 

When we apply curiosity towards what may trouble you-  and begin to break up the sense of limitation- you will naturally do differently.  Yes- it will take effort. Yes you will have to get serious.  But you will have firm ground to stand on for whatever you may want to unfold for yourself.

 

I find that lack of self knowledge and extreme self judgment are most often the culprits.  The root of these is fear.  And while you may not feel afraid -rest assured all lack and limitation of any kind radiates from one of the many many faces of fear. That and self denial. Many think they are a vessel for life-  a conduit, and if we look at that carefully, we find that the individual senses their power source as someplace else. 

 

Can you see what that does?  It farms your power out to an imaginary force. This is where the power of belief, while it may serve you awhile, can never be lasting.   Real understanding is not the same as believing. You gut yourself of real power this way.  So-  what works isn’t always what’s true. I want to show you both what works and what’s true in unison.  And hopeful it will be the last trip around the grab ass pole that you make.

 

Waymarks:  sooner or later- often sooner, because of my intense curiosity and persistence, as you look within yourself to uncover what you keep hidden from yourself (for whatever reason),  you may experience intense discomfort as you become aware of where you  are standing on your own foot.  These are long held beliefs, feelings, stories-  Often taught to you by others before you could even think fully for yourself.   You absorbed these like a little sponge- as you had no defense early in your life. And  they most operate WAY DOWN LOW IN YOU, out of your range of  awareness.

 

There is often an expression of emotion, some will feel like relief, some more challenging-  as you find the nooks and crannies of self judgement and anxiety and fear and whatever else that is layered into the identity.  I know when this happens you are beginning to really punch through- down into the layers of self that most you are not really familiar with.

You have RESISTED these  parts of yourself.  And it stays on repeat in you. You may call it conditioning and programming.   And it has an unconscious effect on you.  Until you make it conscious- it  has power over you that you cannot influence.  Make it conscious-  and now you have empowered yourself to change it.    Your consciousness has a way of eliminating the no longer useful systems that is becomes aware of.  You are a self purifying consciousness.  But to take advantage of this in yourself you must first be AWARE of what no longer serves you.

 

As you let yourself experience all of this- and it begins to dissipate  and you begin to experience a different peace- a different clarity, a different power,  THIS is the real you- your natural goodness, harmony… which  lies at the heart of all of life.

 

HERE is where new action is born.  Your face changes- your speech, your thoughts

Your feelings, your stories, what you notice…

 

And You show up differently in the world. Others will see it.

 

This is not a new identity.  This is the actual, empowered you.  Not more put-on beliefs that you must maintain.  This is where we want to land and create from.

 

And if you're committed- this will serve you forever.